If somebody chooses to be vulnerable enough to tell you that they feel like you've hurt them, you don't get to decide whether you did or not.
Because it's how they feel, irrelevant to you agreeing or not with what they feel.
So if you don't respond to them in a humble and caring manner and validate that person's feelings, irrelevant to you believing they're right or wrong, don't be surprised if you lose them in the process because you are potentially being prideful and selfish with your need to be right.
#EmotionlIntelligence #Mindfulness
@Dagmawi_Babi
Because it's how they feel, irrelevant to you agreeing or not with what they feel.
So if you don't respond to them in a humble and caring manner and validate that person's feelings, irrelevant to you believing they're right or wrong, don't be surprised if you lose them in the process because you are potentially being prideful and selfish with your need to be right.
#EmotionlIntelligence #Mindfulness
@Dagmawi_Babi