I think self development is fully discarded these days and understandably so.

But you can't hate all other books just cause you've read Colleen Hoover's. You've gotta find what advices are worth listening to and take them.

At the end of the day everyone here is trying to be more valuable and develop themselves. So don't be ashamed of it :)

Isn't it wild to you that people are so proud of the tech stack they use and preach that to you all day everyday and not ever, not even once speak about the god/gods they worship?