I didn't realize that the hope of avoiding the pain of a small loss made me consider a bigger loss
Pain and hope are two important categories
When you are trying to fix your small loss and turn it into a profit, hope has a higher percentage of control over your emotions to the extent that you don't feel the pain of a small loss and are neutral about it, but you hope that you can fix it.
But this false hope (which is caused by the few times your hope has worked) disappears when your loss is big enough and the pain of a big loss shows itself like a punch from Mike Tyson.
Like the disappearance of the effect of painkillers when you are in pain, the loss of hope shows itself
Having hope and having a plan are two things, you have to take energy from one so that the other can have its effect
If you give energy to hope, the plan you had will not be executed, and if you give energy to your plan, hope has no place to show itself‌‌.